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Anonymous asked: So my best friend, which is a girl, went out on a date with me 2 mnts. ago (she was taken at the time). About 2 wks ago they broke up but she didn't tell me, now she started talking to her other ex. The one she claims to be "the first love." Now they're on tumblr asking questions like "i love you forever" and "I want to be with you forever" I was here after that breakup the first time. She told me likes me, but she said "I like you, that's it. You should carry on with ur life" What do i do here? I mean if she’s gonna leave you hanging like that for a guy she already broke up with before, you should just stop talking to her. I know that seems kind of harsh and it might be hard for you, but sometimes girls realize what they’re missing when you stop making the effort. So my advice would definitely be to kind of block her off from your life for a while, move on and be happy. If she comes back jealous that you’re spending more time with other people, you know she still has feelings with you. If not, then it’s not meant to be. Best of luck to you mate. Cheers |
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Anonymous asked: When i went to submit it said if your a girl just send nudes. I find this offensive. The friend zone isn't only for guys especially for some of us more butch girls. P.s. Girls do say how they feel. I’m really sorry about that. I send my sincerest apologies. Just so you know, this blog started out as a 3 person team but has dwindled down to just me. The other two (one was a guy, one was a girl) refused to help and weren’t supportive of the ideas I had and eventually leave. I can tell you that the other guy that was running the blog was in charge of adding any tags or subscripts to the blog, and the submit title was done by him. It has been changed, and I’m sorry about that. P.S. I’m pretty sure if all girls really did tell guys how they feel, if anything, guys would be the first ones to know. I didn’t mean to say that EVERY SINGLE FEMALE on the planet earth doesn’t say how they feel, I was saying that, from experience, girls have a tendency to hide their real feelings and over complicate simple things. But we can all have our own opinions based on our own relative experiences. Thank you for help with the submit issue. Cheers, From the Friend zone |
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gurjotito asked: Okay im gonna tell you this for that ask about whether or not you should tell her (your crush) how you feel/ask her out. DUDES just do it, i mean i did and all that time that your going to waste/spend thinking about her isnt going to help. i know i may come off a bit strong but you ask your self "gosh what it doesn't work out, itll get awk" but i say "what if it does? all of your thoughts might come true". I told my crush/best friend how i felt and she said no, but were still friends. Just do it This is great advice. Cheers mate |
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Anonymous asked: Thank you for changing the submission page :) You are very welcome. Cheers. |
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Anonymous asked: you know what's ridiculous? Guys have to social obligation to ask the girl out right? Them how come it's almost always us that has to tell them we like them? Wouldn't it be easier and better if girls said they liked us and then we could ask them out? I agree 10000000%. It would cut alottttt of the in between bullshit of waiting on a girl to know if she is interested in you as well. Oh and to make things even more complicated, girls never tell you how they actually feel. Ever. But yes, it’s fucking ridiculous that this is actually how things work. Cheers, From the Friend zone |
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Anonymous asked: Well, in my experience girls don't mind if you have a crush on them, I have had a few friends now that knew I liked them. Trust me it's not as awkward as you might think. I guess you’re right. Cheers |
